And few people face more discrimination than women in their 50’s and 60’s, who only seem to get email from men who are MUCH older. This is the explanation for why women don’t tell the truth about their bodies.Most of these people are good people – and yet they give in to the temptation to lie. Simply put, there’s very little reward for having integrity.Finally, the last myth we’re gonna bust is that there’s something about your profile that’s attracting the wrong kind of men.
Well, you touched on it yourself, Nicci, in your email. Women know that men prefer thin, so they adjust their descriptions accordingly. Better photos, better essays, better usernames, better email technique.In their attempts to be honest (but not scare off men), women will click on descriptors like “a few pounds extra”, “curvy”, or “voluptuous”. Men have learned to mistrust these body types, and therefore only look at women who are “firm and toned”, “slim/slender”, or “athletic”. Do everything 25% better and it can make a remarkable difference in your life.If, by definition, 95% of men are wrong for you, it should be expected that many will be unemployed, uneducated, older and inappropriate. They’re allowed to take a crack at you, and you’re allowed to ignore them. Focus on what you can control – YOU – and let go of what you can’t – MEN.Focus your energies on attracting and maintaining the 5% that you want. Understanding this about online dating is essential to your success.Women are still going to prefer tall, successful men.
All we can do is tackle this confidently, and not get too thrown by the many bumps in the road.
However, there are a number of reasons why dating a fat girl has its benefits.
In fact, once you give it a shot, you may find going out with a fat lady a lot more enjoyable than hanging out with their skinny counterpart.
Anyway, at first I listed myself as “A few pounds extra” thinking it was an honest description.
Well, two male co-workers were talking about online dating and mentioned that they’d never contact a girl that was in that class or “curvy”, because any time they’d met one in the past, she’d been much heavier than in her pictures.
Heavier people almost always do better in “real life” than online. Should 988 men feel rejected because you didn’t initiate contact? If no one’s WRITING to you, however, there is something to think about.