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” Nini: “I need to tell him that it was just a one time thing and….” Me: (I just jumped to solution) “well you need to sit down and have a grown conversation with him that it was a one time thing and it won’t happen again. The next morning she called me to check on me and after 5 minutes on the phone I asked “but why are you whispering? Her statement started with “mmm because my boyfriend…..” Boyfriend ko? She started by apologizing for not being a good friend. I mean we have had some failed plans but that was on both of our parts. I don’t even talk to my friends or family because he is always around me. When they were in the first few weeks of dating, she would always call him and ask for “permission” before she went anywhere.
Clear the air with him.” After that we did not spend much time together anymore apart from lunch breaks. But her apology became more clear when she explained what has been happening. Even when I go to the bathroom he will seat by the steps and talk to me. Most of the time he said, ‘no’- he was on his way home so she would end up just going home.
The conversation went something like this: Me: “so what happened after that? I just think that dating a roommate is not such a good idea because that’s your space and it might become irritating if you can’t go home because you need your space or you can’t do anything else because you are constantly spending time together.
” Nini: “well, it has been weird since then.” Me: “what do you want to happen? The next Friday we had dinner, finished a bottle of Tequila and went out dancing. She explained that after our drunken escapade, she went home and after the usual g, they became official. Just make sure you are still the spontaneous and outgoing Nini.” That was the last night we spent time together outside of work. She did not seem herself so I asked her what was wrong. The thing is, Nini thought it was cute at the beginning stage and now the same thing she found cute is completely turning her off (and that is exactly what I told her).
I met the others and we all helped each other get acquainted to the new city during the first weekend.
We could clearly notice that there were already groups forming (2 groups of 3). Not even up to one month later, we had some serious roommate issues that got to the attention of our director and they were trying to find the best solution to the issue.
Then one day after class, we decided to catch up and that is when she told me “we have been knacking like every night”. I knew there was a reason why she has been avoiding spending time with me. She let him take that role and now she hates that about him.
He has made somewhat anti-social in less than 3 months of dating (well she let him). On weekends she only goes places that he takes her to and he does not care if it interests her or not (these are her complaints). You can move in with a boyfriend after dating for a while, but I don’t think deciding to date a roommate is a good idea.
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