(34/Japanese, 38/French) By contrast, Japanese men are known for being shy and inept at expressing their feelings to women. Are Japanese girls getting too worked up over cheesy romance or should Japanese guys start taking lessons before it’s too late?
TOKYO — While marriage rates in Japan have been declining overall, a growing number of Japanese women seem to be giving up on their male counterparts and dating foreign men.
So what is it about foreign guys that draws Japanese women to them? Flattering text messages “His texts always start with ‘To the most beautiful girl in the world’.
Pet names “There are many different words to express affection in his language.
Even when simply addressing me, he tenderly calls me ‘my love’ or ‘my treasure’.
And we imagine that most people are perfectly happy with that–but not everyone.
Some Japanese women love dating foreign guys precisely because they’re more willing to show their affection physically. ” Just remember: Make sure your partner is happy with how physical you’re getting!
Apparently, foreign guys have some appeal in Japan due to their willingness to put their partner first by opening doors, carrying heavy stuff, and paying for dinner.
We’re not sure it’s fair to suggest that some Japanese men aren’t equally considerate, but it is surprising how easy it is to be called a “gentleman” here in Japan simply by not knocking people down to get on the train first.
▼”Let me get the doo–uhhh, yeah, you might have to deal with that yourself.” We can’t wondering if some of these women have ever gotten past the first few months of dating a foreign guy, though.
Whatever your ethnicity, that level of chivalry tends to go right out the door after a few years of marriage…
Leaving his love in a letter “Since he has to leave for work early in the morning, he always leaves me a letter with a short message.